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Chris and Jennifer Coursey

Chris and Jen Coursey lead and design the THRIVE conference and training program that uses Life Model principles to promote healing, maturity, recovery and joy in individuals, families, communities and churches. Chris is an ordained minister, a pastoral counselor, published author and international speaker while Jen is a teacher, conference facilitator, author and synchronized dance instructor. Chris and Jen run THRIVE training under a great group of people known as Shepherd's House.

THRIVE Training, P.O. Box 2376, East Peoria, IL. 61611
Telephone: (309) 699-0171
www.thrivetoday.org

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Chris' Testimony:
I’ll never forget my alcohol counselor swearing at me out loud as she watched me walk into her office after I received my second DUI within a year. She hoped to never see me again after my first round of counseling. Now I faced jail time and hefty fines. I had stopped trying and was dying.

My mother had faithfully driven us kids to church every Sunday. At five years old I told her, “Mommy, when I get older I want to be a pastor.” My dreams took other forms too; I wanted to be a movie star, baseball, basketball or a racquetball player.

Even though I had talent, intelligence and many things came easily for me; I would blow one chance after another. I quit time after time. In grade school I found school, learning and testing easy. My teachers and principal recommended me to take an entrance examination at an elite school. I took the test but I purposefully flunked so I could stay in my grade school with my friends.

My fears slowing took over my life but I thought I was having fun. Ask me if I was afraid and I would have laughed, unless you asked about public speaking. I was terrified!
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Jen's Testimony:
You may think that I can teach THRIVE brain skills because I have had them all my life but the truth is just the opposite. Until I began learning joy and relationship skills in 2002 my life revolved around finding a safe place to live or, maybe, to hide. My family had fallen apart and I was looking for a place where I would not feel out of control. I desperately wanted to trust someone, even God, but I could not shake the feeling that even God would not turn out to be who I expected. Fear and confusion started fairly early in my life and by age eleven I had been hospitalized for suicidal depression. It wasn’t like most people could look at me and know there was a problem. Sometimes I could do very well in school, at others I fell apart.

I wasn't able to be consistent. I would learn things and not be able to apply them, like learning I needed to rest when overwhelmed but not be able to apply it when needed. I could not follow a daily routine. Fears often kept me up late so there was no knowing when I would get up or if I would have energy to do anything the next day. Emotions and fears overwhelmed me to the point I quit my school internship with no notice and moved out of state. It was this point where my life crossed paths with Chris. 
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Do You Want Chris and Jen to train your church, community or ministry?

Maturity Retreats
Host or attend a profound weekend of teaching and hands-on exercises to help you reach your God-given potential. Maturity does not grow on trees nor can it be gained by studying theology or hearing a good sermon. Maturity is human responsibility that requires individuals and communities to work together. Bring a maturity weekend to your church. Bring lasting change to your community.

Because maturity is measured in stages, a THRIVE maturity retreat allows community members to discover their earned maturity and identify the next step in their development. The maturity retreat is not designed to replace the community with a seminar nor is it designed to advance people into their next stage of maturity in the seminar itself. Read More
Marriage Retreats
Experience the most recent addition to the THRIVE training package! Enjoy a weekend with your spouse to strengthen your marriage, build joy and change fear to love. Practice exercises designed to improve how you communicate and help you and your spouse recover when things go wrong. Discover the neurochemistry of bonding and so much more to equip your marriage.

THRIVE Marriage Retreats combine theory with plenty of practice so you walk away with skills, healing and hope not just more information. See why THRIVE Marriage Retreats are bringing refreshing joy to marriages!


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THRIVE Conferences
Attend THRIVE with your spouse, friend or prayer partner!

THRIVE training is unlike anything out there. The combination of brain science with the active Presence of Jesus creates lasting changes to your life, marriage, family and church.

Register for THRIVE or, if your church has enough interest, consider hosting a THRIVE in your city! Build joy, learn recovery skills and find solutions to real problems.

THRIVE for me.
THRIVE for my family.
THRIVE for my leaders.

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Contact Chris if you want Life Model applications to your family, community, church and ministry. Learn how recent discoveries in brain science, the Presence of Jesus and Biblical wisdom create change and growth.

Read how THRIVE training changes lives. Read what people say about the Life Model.

Contact Chris if you are interested in hosting a retreat or would like to attend a THRIVE Conference.


THRIVE training focuses on character development so you:

  • Learn return to joy skills.
  • Develop a solid group identity.
  • Foster growth and transformation.
  • Perceive the active Presence of God in your midst.
  • Identify and address the five types of pain the brain knows.
  • Change fear to love so communities stay healthy and operate at their God-given potential.
  • Nurture relationship skills so leaders and congregants suffer well when under pressure. Much MORE!

Consulting

Chris consults churches, ministries, families, couples, leaders and communities on Life Model and THRIVE solutions that include multigenerational community, Immanuel healing and relational brain-based skill training. As we understand what families need to grow and mature, we can correctly diagnose where problems arise and avoid pitfalls next time. We have no shortage of moral failures, addictions and immaturity that run rampant in our families and communities. Leaders cannot affford to invest in programs and resources that are weak or ineffective. Churches need more than fancy packaging for their programs. Chris offers strategic ministry and training so counselors and leaders effectively address type A (Painful Absences) and B traumas (Bad things that happen). Read how lives are being changed through THRIVE training.

Current Activity

Along with his wife Jennifer, Chris develops the THRIVE training program and leads weekend retreats. Priorities include prayer ministry, discipleship, THRIVE teaching and conference development. Chris spends much of his time enjoying his new son Matthew, writing and developing materials, studying, fostering relationships and walking his Chocolate Lab. Chris enjoys training God's people so they remain effective in ministry, marriage and relationships. Teaching the Hebraic roots of the Christian faith is another activity Chris greatly enjoys.
 

Chris and Jen travel and train leaders in America and abroad. THRIVE Conference training has expanded so people all over the world can participate in the THRIVE training from the East to West Coast into Canada. Chris and Jen equip individuals, couples and groups to build joy and recover when things go wrong. Chris and Jen offer unique, experiential-based training that focuses on helping people learn the 19 relational brain skills. This training, based on recent discoveries in neuroscience along with the active Presence of Jesus and Biblical realities, helps people develop the necessary skills to positively impact their families and communities to be more like Jesus. From Illinois, Chris and Jen run THRIVE under Shepherd's House, Inc., a Pastoral Care and Training Center located in Pasadena, California. Both are Assistance Directors for Shepherd's House ministry.

Chris and Jen are active members of New Life Christian Church in Morton, Illinois.

Training and Education

From Illinois Central College in East Peoria, Illinois, Chris transferred to Eastern Illinois University in Charleston, Illinois to major in Sociology with a minor in Psychology. Chris graduated in May of 1998 with a B.A. degree then started work as a counselor under Jo Getzinger and Cheryl Knight. Chris completed his Master’s Degree in Theological Studies from a Messianic Jewish Yeshiva called MBI, or Messianic Bible Institute, out of Virginia. Chris spent over seven years living in a redemptive community setting with the focus on helping severe trauma survivors recover and reach their potential. Chris’s training includes ministering to adults and children with addictions, PTSD, D.I.D., SRA, maturity-related issues and a variety of personality disorders and problems that result from A and B Traumas. Chris works with couples who are stuck in their marriage and want more. Chris is an ordained minister and member of the international Evangelical Church Alliance.

Chris sums up his ministry and mission as, “to help people be full of life and experience Jesus Christ as a reality”. Dr. Jim Wilder mentors and has trained Chris as Chris lectures nationally and internationally on material he authors concerning the effects of trauma and trauma recovery. Chris is known for his relational and community approach to trauma recovery and growth. Chris now operates THRIVE from East Peoria, IL. with his wife Jennifer. Chris offers personal ministry and specializes in maturity and trauma recovery issues. Chris consults churches and groups on how to effectively reach their potential, perceive the active presence of God, avoid pitfalls, stay resourceful and rebuild after a crisis.

Chris sits on the board of directors for Trauma and Abuse Care Group International Society, an organization interested in helping survivors of severe abuse on an international level.

Education

Accomplishments 

Chris is a published author with three books in print. Share Immanuel, The Healing Lifestyle written with Dr. Jim Wilder is translated in multiple languages. Chris and his wife Jen recently completed a third skill guide workbook that is now being tested while two skill guides are already published, named Year One: Mastering Joy and Rest and Year Two: Mastering Returning to Joy. Each skill guide is a 52-week brain retraining, character-building workbook designed to train skills and experience Immanuel growth. These skill guides are the beginning steps toward creating a THRIVE training package for the church. Each book equips THRIVE attendees to continue their skill training practice. Chris and Jen are currently working on an additional training booklet for busy married couples to accompany THRIVE Marriage Retreats.

Chris is co-authoring a book with Dr. Jim Wilder on the subject of Thriving. Chris is currently authoring two books on Thriving and the Church. Read a chapter from Dr. Jim Wilder and Chris Coursey's book.

Chris and Jen released two training videos, one called, Steps to Joy on synchronized dancing. The other, a pre-THRIVE 12 week study video called, Sensible Strategies for Belonging. Both Chris and Jen intend to expand the THRIVE training with additional training videos and resources.

Chris offers articles on topics pertaining to maturity, healing, the role and significance of redemptive Christian community, addiction and trauma recovery, primary attachments and bonding as well as other topics related to Scripture and the Christian experience. One article in particular on Bonds and Attachments, was published in Promise, an international magazine in January of 2004.

Chris develops, organizes and speaks at THRIVE Conferences and travels to speak at various Christian conferences and training seminars each year. The THRIVE conference has grown exponentially in the US and is now offered in Canada. Read THRIVE life-changing stories.

Speaking Engagements

Chris and Jen speak nationally and internationally on Life Model and THRIVE principles, redemptive community, recovery from trauma and Biblical principles to joyfully reach your potential. View locations where Chris and Jen visited. See upcoming training events.